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Hey bois and Grills

I just wanna give a quick shoutout to :iconokimichan: 

She makes amazing art and deserves way more followers! 
She does 2D Art and SFM Art!

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RULES: 
- The 10 first people who comments on this journal will get featured
- I will choose between 3 to 5 deviations from your gallery
- If you comment, please copy-paste the rules to a journal on your page, and feature me in the first slot (Totally not a shameless plug) 
- The idea is to spread art around, not to get free features Thumbs Up (at least that's what we tell ourselves)
1. :iconcyberstorm42x:  Doctor Whooves (remastered) by Cyberstorm42X Mercy Pone by Cyberstorm42X Cyberkimmy Pokemon Battle (request) by Cyberstorm42X I love how you do lighting, Feels very magical. I also love how you do your eye lights!
2. :icongaiactipup: <da:thumb id="747570055"/> God, I love how smooth your lines are. As someone who wishes they could draw, I wish i could draw ponies as good as you!

3. :iconivoryquest:  <da:thumb id="746655447"/> Commissions for Purpleflame 2 by IvoryQuest<da:thumb id="740172985"/> Well well well, you have come some way. I still remember when you first asked me to help you with sfm. You have come very far with improving!

4. :iconambadatu27:  :: SFM :: sunset and reshiram by Ambadatu27 sunset and starlight by Ambadatu27 pear and apple by Ambadatu27 I love how creative you are with your images/posters. I do wish I could have creative ideas like you!

5. :iconapexpredator923: apexpredator923  Morning routine by apexpredator923 Its Your Fault by apexpredator923 Blue Moon by apexpredator923  Grooving by apexpredator923Every time I see you, you remind me of me from a year ago. Your works have such potential if you keep going the way your going! I love the thought and care which is put into the posters you make! 

6. :iconterramations: <da:thumb id="733528347"/><da:thumb id="734166576"/> There's not much stuff on your deviant. But I enjoy your content, I believe with much practice and dedication, you'll be big!

7. :iconokimichan:  Falling Down by Okimichan You're a shining star (AT) by Okimichan I'm Sorry (Vent kinda) by Okimichan You are probably the nicest person I know. I love how your content ins't specific to one genre. You have the art and the sfm. I was I could draw like you!

8. :icontsuriadragon:  Angry Cynder by TsuriaDragon All Star Cynder  by TsuriaDragonTsuriaDragon Model by TsuriaDragon I like how you do your posing.  Your ability to expand your skills with stuff like moon scenes and Forrest scenes and etc I love!

9. :iconxppp1n:  More Peeps by Xppp1N Trix Blender Wallpaper by Xppp1N Old Tech by Xppp1N  Drawing, Blender and sfm. Oh boi. I wish I was as talented as you! I really like your concepts and drawings I wish I could draw cute art like you!

10. :iconwhiteskyline: LyraJackson by WhiteSkyline Ponies in the case.[SFM] by WhiteSkyline Detective Lyra and BonBon [SFM] by WhiteSkyline I do like your Lighting, Scenes, posing and the mood and feeling of your posters!  The ideas that come from you are also spectacular! 
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Hello everyone. 

I don't usually like talking about drama on my  page, just because I didn't want to have an affiliation with drama. But I've gone silent long enough. For the nearly 4 years I have been on Da, I have never actually called out anyone on my page.
Just because it wasn't my type of thing, I try to stay a positive person through hard times. Usually keeping my mouth shut. I've come to realization in the past couple of days you can't keep quite and let their stupid shit to continue.  
This is just a retaliation to someones constant toxic behaviour.

Let us begin, shall we?

Today I got one low life scum bag. Meet Vanitas or TheWhitePone ( I wont give this kid of the satisfaction of his account to be linked in this journal. ) 

This special individual has been causing a bit of trouble in the sfm community for the past couple of years. 

Vanitas is someone who is mentally screwed up. Because of his lack of self awareness and constant manipulation of people is what drove me to make this journal in the first place.
I'm not the first to make a journal exposing this person. I wont be the last. But the reason I make this is to warn everyone of this type of person. I'm what you call a forgive full chill guy. 
It's on a very rare occasion I get angry or upset. But I have been "friends" (Not really friends more like, he only ever wanted to speak to me when he wanted to find improvements on his posters) 
with vanitas for around 3 years. Give or take.  


Now lets begin on the List of how he manipulates people in my helpful guide breaking him down. I'll show proof and explain our it relates to Vanitas/TheWhitePone. 

1. Manipulative people either lack insight into how they engage others and create certain scenarios, or they truly believe that their way of handling a situation is the only way because it means that their needs are being met, and that's all that matters. 

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A manipulator works by using peoples sensitivity and and lack of insight into a topic or conversation to tell them what they shouldn't be doing. In essence, getting them to be on their side. Even though that side is clearly wrong. Now You can see in these screen shots Vantias tells The subject that he/she is being used and manipulated, while He/She in turn is being manipulated by Vanitas.

'you can do better than that'
'Think of your friends, your actual friends.' 
'This online family thing is going to your head, its not doing anything good for you' 


Need I go on? lets go one more. 

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This arguement is like saying. 'I hate this person so you can't be their friend'. Which I must say is the saddest excuse. If someone ever says this to you, they are stupid. People have a choice in choosing who they are friends with. Other people don't decide for them. 
Vanitas is using his manipulation to convince his targets that He/She should do what she needs to do for their own sake. When in reality its just what vanitas wants them to do.

2. Manipulative people do not understand the concept of boundaries.
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I think when It comes to this topic, vanitas is very self concious. Always saying that people shouldn't be sharing screen shots and being extremely conscientious. 

But let me show some stuff he's done to me about his. 

In recent times, my relationship with him has been on and off. just because of his passive aggressive messages towards me.  Even to go so far as to "test" people to see if they care about them.
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Like no joke this is borderline insane. But I wouldn't be surprised if he was insane. 
But if this doesn't convince you then this will. 
He actually has a fake account that he tells people its his "best friends" account Her name is "Amy White" 

Now the reason I have a suspicious feeling that its him is because she acts so much like him. I mean she even "test's" people as well. 
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She also Wanted me do "train him up" and Make stuff for free for him. 
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Ye, no. I don't do things for free. Unless its for modellers ( like with free preview posters ) I don't like being forced to help people. 

She was pretty much forcing me to talk to Vanitas, Which I wasn't too keen on because he would constantly belittleing me and passive aggressively insult me.
But like the fucking forgiveful idiot I am, I feel for it. Over and Over again. I don't blame him for that I blame myself. I've been too nice to people like him.  


Side note: I'm tired of seeing cancer like this in the fandom, constantly. You would be surprised how many messages I get asking for "free stuff". It gets really fucking annoying, when people rage at me because I'm not doing stuff for free. But that's an issue for another day.  



3. A manipulator avoids responsibilities for his own conduct by blaming others for causing it. 

Now I only have one screen shot where he actually apologised to me, for the first TIME. Out of everything he's done, he never claimed responsibility for his own actions. Until I called him out in DMs on him.
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Just because he's done this shit too many times towards me, I couldn't buy it. Not with the apology, but with his act in general. Like I said I've been on and off with his friendship before.

He's Never apologised to me then and only now when I said I would expose him for the manipulating snake he is, That's when he is forced to apologize. Typical, when you are cornered  and have no place to go.  Keep in mind this is actual only ever apologie to me. In 3 years, he's done a lot of awful stuff too and has said absolute shit behind peoples backs. 
He constantly blames his out burst's on his depression. Which I'll talk about later. 


4. Manipulative people prey on our sensibilities, emotional sensitivity, and especially conscientiousness.

Now I can account to this, Being someone who is calm and chill in nature I've been at the forefront of his vile hate. 
Even to go far and to say that I got "lucky" that I have fans/views

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To even say this, it was the last straw. To say I was lucky was an insult to me and my skills as a content creator. Because I do work hard and I have improved over the years I started on Da. 

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I even helped this guy for ages with his posters, trying to give him advice on how he could approve. 
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I'm not sure what this guy is looking for. Attention, is the most likest of sources. 

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He only does what he does for views and complains when no one comments or appreciates his stuff.

I can some what sympathise with him on that Because when i started out I was in the same boat, but it was no excuse to be a dick to me. 


Vanitas also does a thing where he will use depression as a tool to help him get sympathy or make people feel guilty about themselves. 

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-The last image was from when I ripped him a new one. 

He always uses his disabilities as an excuse for his behaviour. Which it isn't. Because he had depression when I met him, he was a rude dude then and still is now. ( wow, I suck at call-outs, I'm such a pussy. XD ) 


I've even seen him do this to others.
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Its not because people want to "hang out with someone who has more followers" than you Vanitas, Its because you're a jerk, a manipulator. A Con artist. 

5. If you want an easy way to discern manipulators from empathetic people, pay attention to the way they speak about others in relation to you. They will often talk about you behind your back the same way they talk to you about others. 

Do you think vantius talked to me like he did with the other screen shots? No? I though so. 

I thought so. He has a clear distinct pattern of manipulation when it comes to dealing with individuals, sometimes its soft and sweet and innocent. Other times its more like he's flipped a 180 on you. Talks mad shit about you, while still asking for help. Trust me I don't need to provide screen shots for this, Just look at the difference of The black bar person and me. 

Example: 
Telling me to 'shut up' because I was mad and pissed off at him. Exposed1 by RedAceOfSpades

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He is constantly jealous of others. Always hating people better than himself. 


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But all "big people" are meanies in the SFM community. smh. 
Compare my conversations with the person I had to blacken out from Skype. There's a massive difference in the way he speaks to people.  

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So jealous, its crazy.  

Even though I can also confess, its nice to have feedback on works and pieces I've created. 
But I can see why he doesn't get any. Because he bullies people who do!






Not to mention this guy even bullies previous friends on twitter for no reason what so ever. 

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In short
: Don't trust this guy. If your a sensitive or emotional person. Watch out.
This guy will use what ever webs he has against you. To suck you into feel bad for him, when ever. Its absolutely disgusting. 
To be honest there's been a lot of journals on Vanitas. This probably wont be the last if he doesn't change. I call for people to be wary of this person. Manipulation is a real threat from him. If you're a forgive full person. Don't be friends with him. I don't call for people to harass him or tease him. All I want is my voice to be herd about this guy. 
That's it. I'll talk to you guys later, peace. 

Here's the article I used for manipulation tactics.
www.psychologytoday.com/au/blo…
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